Thursday, June 6, 2013

NOW YOU GOT MARRIED?

"And they got married finally and they lived happily ever after". Sounds like a Bollywood movie's end. Friends, "Never deceive about marital perfection! Marriage is a human institution and is temporal. It is not perfect and it was not meant to be. It is not even an eternal relationship. You may think marriages are made in heaven but not according to the Bible, they don't end up in heaven. That may hurt some of you. Some may take great hope in that too. The moment you say "I DO", the gravitational pull starts in on your marriage. It happens on the Honey Moon. You get first look at the person you have committed to for the rest of your life. Tuxedo have to go, Sari, dress, wedding gown will be gone. cologne fades, sweat smells, dirty dishes, laundry, car break downs, diapers, ear infection etc will be staring at you. Payments, payments and more payments. Growth in the marriage does not happen unless you work at it. BUDGETING AND CONTROLLING YOUR EXPENSES ARE ABSOLUTE NECESSARY. That's why Bible passages about marriage are not encouragements or recommendations, THEY ARE COMMANDS. Hey, thanks for allowing me to share the Word at your wedding. This is just a reminder unless you didn't hear then. I know you both were thinking about something else then. I don't blame you buddy.

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